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Ramblings of an Island Girl
- Post author By Fred
- Post date February 15, 2022
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Ramblings of an Island Girl
A wake up
call for the Caribbean (and the world)
I recently visited Aruba and was amazed by the big steps the island has made towards protecting its unique and interesting eco-system and marine life. Aruba seems to be on the fast track to becoming one of the greenest and most eco-fabulous destinations in the Caribbean even though according to many locals there the island has yet a long way to go.
But for me, coming from the former sister island to Aruba and fellow ex-colony of the Netherlands, St. Maarten, where single use plastic still reigns as king, I stand in awe of the advancements that Aruba has made.

This One Happy Island, as it is referred to in its marketing campaigns, has recently banned all use, sale and production of single-use plastic items on the island, from single use plastic bags, cups, utensils, straws to Styrofoam containers. One can now order a meal for take out and walk away completely guilt free with your food in containers made of much less hazardous material to the environment like cardboard. Plastic straws at bars and restaurants have been replaced with straws made out of paper, wheat, bamboo and even pasta.
Along with the ban on single use plastic also came the ban on sunscreen containing Oxybenzone, which is the lead toxin responsible for the irreparable damages caused to coral everywhere, the diminishing marine life and also certain human skin conditions.
I was amazed by the Aruban government’s determination to make the island nation into a green super power and in so doing, set an example of good behavior for the rest of the Caribbean.
It left me wondering: “If they can do it, why can’t the rest of us?” It made me think of my own personal practices and attempts on my island home St. Maarten, no matter how feeble and little. I only use reusable water bottles instead of plastic, I say no to plastic bags, cups and straws. In my bag along with my wallet are my other must-have items: a reusable water bottle, reusable rum cup (because you never know when you’ll get a last minute invitation to happy hour), bamboo straw, metal straw and a pouch of silver utensils in case I find myself unexpectedly getting takeout. Sometimes I’ll have a lunch box with me as well. People look at me funny when I ask for my order to be packed in my lunch box instead of a Styrofoam container. I hear the occasional snickers behind my back and I ignore the odd looks and rude commentaries. At the grocery store I frequent I am known as the “No Plastic Lady” and my friends and family give the usual grunt whenever I remind them of the harms they are causing by taking a drink that is served in a plastic cup. My husband is about to divorce me because of the many arguments we have whenever he stops at the store to get some last minute items and he packs them in a (Gasp) plastic bag – the Horror!”
Aside from some of my friends who have finally started to see the impact they have on the incredible waste produced on the island, most people just seem immune or uncaring. Our islands have such fragile eco systems and all we seem to care about is securing our groceries by double bagging and making sure we can continue the happy hour fun by asking for a to go cup, which we then unceremoniously dump onto landfills that are overflowing and where methane gas bubbles are threatening to explode us into the next century.
Yes, we all love to complain about our local dumps and landfills, especially when something disastrous happens that makes us realize how it can easily negatively affect our bread and butter called tourism. Yet, we never stop to think that WE are the biggest contributors to these minor disasters. Why look in the mirror when you can always blame government and keep purchasing and use plastic because it is much cheaper and thus better for business (read: more money) than the better and healthier alternative?
We, Caribbean people can do better. We can follow the examples of islands such as Aruba, the BVI, the Bahamas, Barbados, Grenada and a few more.
Our need to waste is getting out of hand and our Caribbean stubbornness is standing in the way of change. Nobody likes change. I’m the first one to complain but I think also that in the Caribbean we don’t only not like change, we stubbornly fight against it, only welcoming it when it makes our lives so much easier or richer in money, possessions and assets.
Our priorities are a little screwed up and that’s a pity because we can do so much better, achieve such greatness, even as smaller nations. Just like we are fast to copy our neighbor’s idea of a food truck or rum shack, why not copy businesses that use other alternatives to plastic? Why not make our own reef safe sunscreen? Why not purchase and use our own reusable water bottles, rum cups, metal straws, fabric bags and lunch boxes? These tems are not just a trend, they are pat of a new lifestyle that if all of us partake in, will be so easy to adapt to.
Our eco system is unique but also delicate. It needs to be protected not only by our government but mostly by you, me, all of us.
It won’t be hurricanes or volcanoes that will be the end of us but our own stubbornness and our own neglect to protect our environment.
You can also keep our islands’ environment safe by adjusting how you travel here without having to make drastic changes in how you have gotten used to travel. Let’s start with the basics:
- Only use reef-safe sunscreen when in the Caribbean (and everywhere else for that matter)
- Bring and use a reusable water bottles or purchase one here instead of depending solely on plastic water bottles for your daily water intake. Most islands’ tap water is completely safe to drink and is even deliciously fresh tasting.
- Use your water bottle or purchase a reusable wine cup or rum cup as well as a metal or bamboo straw for happy hour.
- Walk with your own shopping bag and say no to plastic bags at grocery stores. Actually, while you’re at it, say no to plastic cups and straws and Styrofoam containers as well.
- Buy locally instead of bringing in products from your home country that will no doubt end up in our garbage and thus add to our overflowing dumps.
And last but certainly not least and definitely as powerful in helping our planet: Stop visiting zoos, dolphinariums or other attractions where you get up close with wild animals. A wild animal forced to entertain you is not a happy animal and much harm has been done in the capture and breaking in of that animal. Dolphins are ripped from their mothers’ dead carcasses, flamingos are getting their wings clipped, monkeys are held in deplorable conditions just to make their captors money and then be killed when they are no longer of use. You are the only one that can stop the unfair treatment of animals by caring and by not visiting, attending or promoting places that use animals as an attraction. This will only stop when the demand diminishes.
Together we can make a difference. Surely I am not naïve in believing this overused quote, right? I refuse to think that my little rant here will not affect a single person reading this. If it has, and I was able t open your eyes wide enough for you to at least question how you could be a more responsible human, I have done my part. Let me know your thoughts, comments and questions by sending me an email to rcelestina@readmelange.com
Marry Caribbean
- Post author By Fred
- Post date February 15, 2022
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Marry Caribbean

Destination Wedding Etiquette
You are about to have your first contact with your Caribbean Service Provider (hotel, wedding planner, tour operator, etc.)
There are simple things that you need to be remindful of when conversing from a distance. Good Manners!!
The old adage, “You can catch more flies with honey than with vinegar” still holds true. Treat others the way you would like to be treated, and you would be surprised to see how others go out of their way to make sure your requests are fulfilled.
RESPECT – Respect the person, respect the culture. Just because you may have a few dollars to spend in the destination, does not give you the right to be arrogant.
HONESTY – When dealing with your Service Provider, do be honest. If you cannot afford it, do say so. Do not hide behind the ‘curtain’ of negative negotiation. If it is completely out of your budget, say so and ask if there is a substitute. You would be amazed that the Service Provider would perhaps go out of their way to make sure your wishes are granted.
CIVILITY – Ah…yes…you are speaking with the “natives” so you are about to show them how things are done. Wrong!! With a smile and a gentle response to your overbearing demands, the Service Provider will make sure you are ‘nickel and dimed’ for everything.
COMMUNICATION – Do be gracious in your communications (verbal, text, email, etc.) and clearly state what your objectives are for your memorable day and your budget limitations.
LAWS – Each destination is governed by rules/laws. You must abide by these or you will have the opportunity to meet your local Ambassador from a confined space (Jail). If your Service provider cannot approve your request due to the laws of his/her country…refrain from unleashing your hostility. They must also abide by the laws.
ATTIRE – You have a great body and the desire to show it off. Do save it for the beach and dress appropriately in public spaces. You would not do it in your hometown, then do not do it in someone else’s hometown.
BEHAVIOUR – Loud, Aggressive, Profanity laced behavior will provide you the opportunity to meet the local law enforcement. Enough said on this, as you would now have memories to last a lifetime.
Do treat others the way you would like to be treated, and have fun. That is why you are visiting the country – for a new experience and to have a memorable wedding or honeymoon.
Wishing you great memories as you embark on this road of a lifetime.

PLANNING THE PERFECT CARIBBEAN DESTINATION WEDDING
Congratulations on your engagement, and delighted that you have chosen the Caribbean for this once in a lifetime event. The hospitality in this region is above and beyond. You can design, suggest, develop and realize the wedding of your dreams.
*The Wedding Planners in the Caribbean are topnotch and are very skilled in working with you to achieve both the look you desire, the event you want and a budget to meet your expectations.
*Most hotels already have a ‘Director of Romance’ on staff and like any other destination you also have skilled independent Wedding Planners.
*Do promise that you will use the services of a Travel Agent and Destination Wedding Planner to help you with the planning of this important event. Your travel agent will know who to contact, and work with, in the allocated budget.
*Depending on the number of guests attending you will want to make sure that there are other hotels nearby offering a varied pricing structure, so your guests will choose their accommodations based on their budget.
*Work with the Travel Agent to create a ‘newsletter’, providing up to date information for your guests on activities, wedding location, schedule of events, temperature, and brief history of the destination, shopping and all relevant information. This will also include flight options to the destination.
*Do plan an Island event just for you and your attendants. Secure the services of your ‘Director of Romance’ or wedding planner to create Island wedding gifts for your wedding party. As an added touch, send a welcome basket to the rooms of each of your guests. (Welcome basket could include: sandals, disposable cameras, suntan lotion, a bottle of water and a small bottle of local rum/liqueur)
*Most of all have fun, enjoy your time away and leave the perceived problems and headaches to the competent planner you selected.
COVID19: I must add that with the present crisis unfolding on a daily basis, the rules, regulations, requirements, health updates is a constantly changing one, so do make sure you follow up frequently in order to be on top of the latest updates.
CEO: Jacqueline Johnson, CTC
Previously Executive Travel Director of Brides Magazine, Modern Bride, Elegant Bride, Brides Destination Weddings & Honeymoons and Brides.com(CondeNast). She has also served as VP/Associate Publisher for Bridal Guide Magazine. For over two decades she served on the Board of Directors of the Caribbean Tourism Organization (CTO) with the Ministers and Directors of Tourism for 33 separate countries, and for the past 10 years she has been a member of the Executive Committee. She is also the recipient of CTO’s Medal of Excellence as one of the 50 Most Influential Persons in the Caribbean. Johnson is Chairman of the CTO Foundation, an organization that raises funds to further the education of outstanding Caribbean citizens who have demonstrated a career commitment to tourism; and she is a Certified Travel Counselor (CTC). She is a frequently invited to speak on the wedding and honeymoon travel markets.

BeYouTiful Exfoiliates
- Post author By Fred
- Post date February 15, 2022
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BeYouTiful Exfoiliates

“Sunscreen application should start from early childhood and continue through adult life.”

Sage advice from Binta, the creator of BeYouTiful Exfoiliates.
Binta is an island girl originally from the tri-island state of Grenada, Carriacou and Petite Martinique located in the Eastern Caribbean, but has lived in the United States for over a decade. She is a wife, mom to two spirited little girls, a chemistry teacher, and entrepreneur. She is also bilingual and had the wonderful opportunity to teach Spanish for a year at a high school in her home country, and to assist with translations in high schools in Texas where she currently resides. Binta is also a fitness enthusiast and weight lifting athlete, having competed in the “Figure” class division prior to becoming a mom. She now shares her workouts, health and fitness tips on social media. “My purpose is to inspire and motivate others to become the best versions of themselves, to take charge of their health, to look and feel good,” she said, “therefore, I have decided to merge my fitness platform with my skin care line to create a body care brand.”
About four years ago while pregnant with her first child, Binta became aware of the negative effect the hormonal changes were having on her skin – breakouts and extreme dryness was an everyday concern which persisted, postpartum. The chemist in her decided to embark on a quest to create products to address the specific skin issues she faced. Within weeks of using the products she created, compliments were being received for her glowing skin and questions about her skin care regimen occurred almost daily. She happily shared.
What started as a personal journey quickly grew into something more. Friends and family were requesting her products, so she made small batches of different items. It blossomed from there, she identified that this was a lucrative business, licenses and permits were obtained and BeYouTiful Exfoliates was officially born.
The BeYouTiful Exfoliates foray into non-family/friends-as-customers territory started in January 2018. Her first sales were in-person at local farmers markers. Customer reviews created a buzz in various communities and the business took off with her receiving pre-pandemic invitations to sell at holiday markets, special and private events. With the positive reviews came the realization that an Etsy shop was the next beneficial step which is the only place her products are now sold as Covid-19 has halted in-person events. Support from friends and family continued – her mom purchased the first item from her online store.
Products are made from fair trade, cruelty-free, organic material. Body butters such as shea butter, mango butter, and vitamin E oil are carefully chosen to ensure they will be most beneficial for the skin.
“Every ingredient does something different for the skin,” Binta explained, “but it is also important to understand how to mix and blend.” Oils each have a different rate of absorption and some can even cause the product created to behave unfavorably – such as harden or settle out. “This is where my background in chemistry comes in. There are many chemical principles involved in developing and manufacturing personal care products. One must understand formulation, chemical safety and shelf-life just to name a few. In many ways, I get to merge a hobby with my true profession.”
BeYouTiful Exfoliates start-up line of products were sugar and coffee scrubs. These were so well received that customers requested other products so lotions, body butters, various scrubs (including lip scrubs), moisturizers, soap bars (including loofah soap bars), lip balms and others were added. “I do not always offer the same products year-round. A lot depends on what my suppliers can provide and what is in demand. I think it is a smart way to keep my business going.”
With the BeYouTiful line of products, customers, both male and female, can enjoy a true spa-like experience, in the comfort of their home.

Customer-favourites are the body butters and “Revive” coffee scrub. The natural scent of coffee is invigorating, which may the alluring feature people enjoy. Reviews have had customers boast of a reduction in visible cellulite and dark under arms. The Exfoliates, such as the salt scrub, should not be used on children because of their delicate skin, but it is safe for them to use the body butters and soaps.
Binta’s own beauty regimen includes exfoliating which helps to buff away dead skin cells thereby improving her skin’s appearance. “I love using any of my scrubs for exfoliating my entire body. My “Revive” coffee scrub is great for early mornings because it helps with lifting your senses and awakening. My salt scrubs are perfect for late evenings and nights because they feel a bit more relaxing. It is not always necessary to follow up with a body butter or moisturizer since my scrubs are made with an oil base. I do this to ensure the skin is not left dry.” Her regimen also includes a very good diet and hydration. “I usually drink my cup of tea or latte in the morning but for the rest of the day, it’s water and a smoothie post workout. Good hydration helps the skin retain elasticity, plumpness, appear less wrinkled, cracked and dry. A diet rich in a variety of vitamins and minerals is also imperative to having good looking and healthy skin.”
According to Binta, the skin care routine one chooses will depend on many factors, including age, skin type and skin-related issues, but the simple routine of washing and wearing sunscreen can begin at an early age. Skin needs sunshine, but it should be protected against extended hours of exposure. Sunscreen application should start from early childhood and continue through adult life.
BeYouTiful Exfoliates can be purchased on Etsy or ordered directly from Binta via:
Instagram DM: @caribspicebeyoutiful
Facebook message: @beyoutifulexfoliates
Ships only within the continental US.
Everyone can expect to receive EXCELLENT customer service!
Aruba Life Organics
- Post author By Fred
- Post date February 15, 2022
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Aruba Life Organics Handcrafted Sustainable and Organic Makeup
By Riselle Celestina
Have you ever wanted to wear your beauty products and be completely at ease that what you are applying to your skin is not only good for you but also not harmful to the environment? These days words like organic, eco-friendly and natural seem to be used by big name brands in the beauty and cosmetics department everywhere and it is no wonder. Most consumers are becoming more aware of what they apply to their skin and a percentage is also concerned about the possible waste or damage that they can create by using irresponsible products. Big Name Corporations are introducing so called organic products but have you ever stopped to read the labels and see if the ingredients in these products are actually organic and healthy for you and yours?

While researching ways to a healthier lifestyle for herself and her family, Julienne Paskel-Heronimo started experimenting in her kitchen with different natural and organic ingredients to create a more natural and safe alternative to the more conventional makeup available. And so Arubalife Organics was born.
Julienne’s brand has grown in the meantime to a full line of sustainable and organic personal care items. She is famous for her sunscreen which is made of 5 simple ingredients and is not only safe for coral and marine life but for us humans too. With Aruba’s recent ban on sunscreen containing Oxybenzone, which is the toxic ingredient causing so much harm to the coral and marine life, Julienne’s version of a clean and healthy sunscreen comes highly recommended and most wanted. Speaking of the other products in Julienne’s arsenal of sustainable and organic personal care items are the deodorants that come in three different aromas, a black eyeliner made with activated charcoal, different shades of blushes as well as lip tints that come in a vegan or non-vegan color. Julienne classifies her products as non-vegan when ingredients like beeswax to bind and carmine for color are used. She makes sure to include a QR code on each of her products, which come beautifully and responsibly packaged in containers made of cardboard.
Once scanned the QR code takes you to a page on the website that not only has all the ingredients listed but also has information like how to apply the products and how to get the best results.
By making small batches at the time, Julienne guarantees the freshness of her products and stands by the fact that they are so natural and pure that you can practically eat them.
You can get your hands on the Arubalife Organics line at different locations on Aruba or contact Julienne via the website arubalife.com for delivery to your hotel or Airbnb whenever you find yourself on the One Happy and now Sustainable Island.